ThE sWeEtNeSs In MyStErIeS

How much we always want to know, We strive to find, to have some insight to everything around us; from the stars to the next person around you. We all live in an earth that's clouded by mysteries.

Inasmuch as we try to avoid being left in mysterious situations, there's a lot of perfection that's found in the Unknown.
Questions that we ask ourselevs like, 'how do i look?', Is she looking in my direction, Am I on the right track, Do my clothes fit, how far should I take this?, where's my happy-ending?, Am I relevant?, Am I cocky?, Am I Doing it right?

We always want an answer to every question that we ask, when it's the uncertainty and spontaneity of the unknown that often gives us the thrills we so often want to experience. If we all knew who had a crush on us, we'd take people for granted and get cocky. If we knew how relevant we are we'll become really proud. If we knew a person's true nature, we'd take the person for a ride because you know the soft-spots.

We tend to want to preempt actions that could possibly come our way. If we knew who'd give us a hard time or hurt us, we could hurt them before they had a chance to have their way. We all exploit people in one way or another because of certain things about them that we know. We  always want to know how the movie ends before it starts, we always want to know how the food tastes before we get back home, we want to know which roads not to take or where not to go; when it is indeed in these unknown circumstances that we find thrill, pain, love, peace and joy that make up what we call life.
 
A Mystery is;
The uncertainty that blows your mind,
The darkness that gives your life a flare, a spark, and a Fire!
The Unknown that keeps us guessing, giving us direction by our own desires thus making sure that we follow what our heart and mind tells us; following that which gives us our adventure and thrill in life.

Not all things are meant to be known, some need to be experienced...

...This one got me laughing hard!

One day 3 people were stuck on an island with cannibals.

The cannibals said, "If you do what we say, we won’t kill

you". So the 3 people followed the orders from the

cannibals.

The cannibals said, "Go into the forest and pick 10 pieces

of the first kind of fruit you see".

So the first guy came back out of the forest with 10

apples. The cannibals said, "Stick the apples up in your ass

without making a facial expression". The person then

frowned in pain after the second apple, so the cannibals

killed him.

The second person came back out of the forest with 10

cherries. The cannibals said, "Put the cherries up your ass

without making a facial expression". The person then

started laughing on the tenth cherry, so they killed him.

In heaven, the person with apples asked the person with

cherries "why did you start laughing at the tenth cherry?

You were almost there". He replied, "I saw the

last guy come out with pineapples."

RaY's WoRlD

"RaYmOnD's MiNd"

"Where's the fun in this?, how come I'm no more than I am now?

What went wrong???

I'm handsome, drive a nice car, have money but yet and still..."

"Where's the thrill in youthful living?, I need something more....A steady girl perhaps??"

Somewhere, somehow in his mind, he know's he's being played;

On the outside he's some hotshot playa,

Gets who he wants, till he's tired and then moves on to the next..

On the inside, he's soft as a jelly fish...

"Who is She?, she's real pretty..." he wonders to himself.

He's had spells of one-night stands,

Streaks of conquered foes,

but on his insides, he finds himself very lonely,

He tries to get close but like with the last time, he starts off very well, they become friends and for some unexplained reason, they part not even with a goodbye. It starts with silly excuses, then unanswered calls then... poof! She dissapears and he's back where he started...

Angered from his last spell, he picks up yet another and this time, she's not for keeps,

He's in an uncontrolled "heartbreak-playa life"cycle.

"How do i get this feeling off of me?", he asks himself everyday.

He takes the last drag from his 'J', he's as high as he possibly can be;

Stands up cleans himself up, Sprays his cologne and freshens up...off for yet another empty date.

Its Our Handwork!

Romance's crap. 
Love aint easy to find
and even when it comes around it often leaves scars marred by pain and frustration, disappointm
ents and failed trusts.
I hear Its wrong to be a playa but it hurts to be lover.
The long cycle that now builds the 'outlawed' personality that is often misunderstood as being anti-social.
Ok....Point taken;
Neither women nor men are to be toyed with. The thing is, it is inexplainable why a countless number of 'would-be' good girls or guys, end up hurting people who in turn detach from a life ruled by emotions, their romance becomes begins to fade or doesn't last as long as it should.

I guess we all are more of a product of our experiences rather than the notion that people who attach less to personal relationships than others are a breed -fondly called 'Playa'- is a social outlaw, without our realising that they are created by our own actions, the moment you turned down someone,which is an unavoidable bridge that we all have to pass, and in one way is our actions biting us in the rear.
Quit wasting time! Enjoy life as it gives us our present of the 'Present'.
Explore friendships, live a little, party a little harder, smile a little more, play some more.
Luckily enough for some who've been exposed to this truths end up with the lives you'd always wished for.

...the social misfit's clearly our hand-work.... don't crucify him/her!

::The World of The Mind::

My Mind is my World,

Your Mind is Your World,

Our Mind is Our World,

Invariably, the larger your mindset the larger your World. We all wish(ed), at some point in our lives, to be rich, famous, a pop-star, a singer, a footballer....the list is endless. We tend to derail from all these aspirations when the reality of life hits us like a brick on the head. Forgetting these dreams and aspirations, to me, is a major cause of the mid-life crises that we all tend to have at some point in our lives. 

The world we live in today is merely a function of the dreams that people (people just like us) had and did not derail from. From the Wright Brothers creation of the Aeroplane, to Karl Benz's design and creation of automobiles as we know them today. Who would have ever thought that you could fly?or even surf??

Ideas conceived in your mind have the potential to blow up into tomorrow's biggest thing. So....just how big is your mind? Are you happy with what you're doing? How far ahead do you think? Who are you? Where are you? Why are you here? What can you do? What makes you tick?Are you the best you?? Where are you going? How built up are you to go where you want to go?

A definite answer to these crucial questions of life usually indicates how far in life you've gone, how big your world is and whether or not you'll live a fulfilled life. I have come to understand my world is only as big as my mind has created it to be. If you can dream it...you can be it!! 

We all have our dreams, what differentiates each person is the ability and courage to follow through. If you're sure about your dream, devise a plan to reach that dream of yours and follow it through with every last muscle in your body!! Who would've ever thought that talk shows would make Oprah Winfrey worth a Billion Dollars today?

You don't always have to follow the statusquo, but in following your dreams you must deal with the reality of risks and possible failures and use this knowledge to be the best You that you can be. Find what makes you happy and DO IT!

I end with the Eternal and always effectual words from the Bible in Proverbs 29:18 - "...Without a Vision, the people perish"